- Travel more than one hour out of town together.
- Dance with or without music. (Always ask first, not only with words)
- Dance with her in public.
- Dance in the rain. (Even in your best outfit)
- Candles/Incense/Oils/Blacklight make for great cuddling/sex.
- Sleep together. (Actually sleep, not sex)
- Be a prince to her parents. (Brownie points)
- Share a plate of spaghetti. (Ever see “Lady and the Tramp”?)
- Give her roses or wildflowers. For no reason, often.
- Do the little things. (I.E., Pull out chairs, open doors, hold hands....)
- Notice when she does the little things.
- Surprise her with dinner and dancing. (On dinner and a movie date night)
- WRITE SAPPY LOVE LETTERS/NOTES.
- Never, ever forget "holidays"! (The ones that the two of you make up too)
- Girls like guys who will listen to sappy love songs. (When she's around, and without groaning)
- Always ask them how their day was...and listen!
- Say I love you to each other, at least once in every 24 hour period.
- Quote her favorite movie.
- On "holidays" have her song played at least once...without her having to tell you to.
- Romantic/classical music and candles/fires make for great cuddling.
- Stargaze on a clear night. (New moons are the best times)
- Find a nice secluded spot that is only yours.
- Tell her you love her only when you mean it and make sure she knows you mean it.
- Write poetry/songs for each other.
- Sing or play a musical instrument. (If you can)
- Draw. (If you can)
- Tell her she's beautiful, even in sweatpants and a tee-shirt. (And mean it)
- Be nice to her friends, but not too nice. (More brownie points)
- Watch the sunset together.
- Call from your vacation spot just to say hi.
- Go 30 minutes out of your way just spend a few hours with her.
- Order for her. (Ask her what she wants and then tell the waiter/waitress for her)
- Always appear to pay. (Even if it's Dutch)
- Do things you have never done before with her.
- Flirt in public. (Yes, that means holding hands)
- PDA - Public Displays of Affection.
- DON'T make her do anything she doesn't want to.
- Let her lay on your lap and run your fingers through her hair. (She would do it to you)
- Always chase after her. (Especially after fights)
- Touch her in a loving way. (Seduce her)
- Have a candlelight dinner for two at least once a year.
- Love yourself before you love anyone else.
- Cook for each other.
- Go on a twilight picnic.
- Whisper sweet nothings.
- Request/dedicate songs to each other.
- Make memories together.
- Let there never be a moment when you are not thinking about them, and make sure they know that.
- Buy her a ring.
- Be there for the good and the bad times.
- Walk her to her door.
- Don't just tell her you love her, show her.
- Spend all day with her doing nothing.
- Go home and call her to talk about nothing.
- Moonlit walks on the beach. (Lake or ocean...no difference)
- Introduce them as your girlfriend or boyfriend to your friends.
- Take her to a romantic movie and remember the parts she likes.
- Find out her favorite flower and give it to her for her birthday. (No matter how difficult it is to find)
- Know her favorite flower, color, number, animal, song (or band) and movie.
- Compliment her for no reason. (NEVER LIE she can tell)
- Treat her the way she wants to be treated, not the way other girls want to be treated.
- When you say "I'm sorry" look them in the eyes.
- In disagreements, fight fair. No name calling!
- Don't let little mistakes become big mistakes.
- Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
- Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
- Always close your eyes. Staring is rude.
- Go on a carriage ride through the park.
- You figure it out.
- Share your deep dark secrets with each other.
- Tell them your fantasies.
- Make them feel important.
- Lips were made for kissing. So were cheeks, hands, necks, fingertips, shoulders, etc.
- Go for a twilight horseback ride.
- Never ever physically hurt her intentionally.
- Sit on the floor at the movie theater.
- Have your picture taken together.
- Eat ice cream together.
- Go to a museum together.
- Talk to each other using only body language.
- Send a silly/sappy card just because you were thinking about them.
- Give them space when they need it.
- Carve your names into a tree/table.
- Go for a walk at dusk together.
- Send them a singing telegram.
- Spend all night thinking of 1001 sweet things to do for them.
- Hold them and gaze into there eyes and realize how much you love them and tell them that.
- Gently run your hand across their cheek and look in their eyes.
- Blindfold them and take them somewhere romantic.
- If you cannot feel their heartbeat, you are not close enough.
- Go roller/ice skating together.
- Give backrubs just because.
- Everyone deserves a second chance. (Or third...)
- When people put them down, defend them.
- Don't have sex, make love.
- Do anything to impress them.
- ALWAYS be honest with them. (Even if you know it's gonna hurt... it'll hurt more if you lie.)
- Go hiking/camping together.
- Give them stuffed animals just because.
- Treat her like a princess.
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